Sarah Gonzales Bio
Welcome!
I am very happy you are here. There is much to talk about.My name is Sarah Gonzales.
I am a writer, a cook, a life-long learner, a teacher, a musician, a dancer, a runner, a wife of a great husband, a daughter of Heavenly and earthly parents, a sister, a future mother, an energy worker, and a faith and relationships coach, and a great friend.
I help women recognize their divine value. I do this by helping them heal their relationships with God, themselves and others, helping them receive more faith and resilience, and helping them to implement subtle chances in perspective and habits to transform their lives. In turn, these women come to know who they really are, find their purpose, enjoy their relationships, increase prosperity and peace and get excited about existing day to day. Little by little they increase in power and craft a life of their dreams. This is what I want for you!
Like every human, I grew up in a home that was less than perfect. We had a lot of good times, a lot of exceptionally smart people, and a lot of things that needed to change. (We all get along now.) When I was twelve years old, I not only realized the extent of the reactive habits in our household, but also how I personally contributed to the difficult feelings in our home. It was painful. I, having been raised to believe in a God who listened to prayers, got down on my knees and asked God to teach me how to have a loving family—both how to be more loving to my family of origin, as well as to learn the skills needed to be a loving spouse and parent.
When I turned 21, I took some time to serve as a missionary for my church. My main job was to teach people about Jesus and to invite them to develop a relationship with him, which would, in turn, help them in their daily lives. I met a lot of exceptionally wonderful people who loved Jesus, but also struggled—they struggled with addictions, with difficult marriages, with depression, etc. etc. I got down on my knees and asked God the question aching in my heart. “I know that faith brings miracles, and that the healings and promises in the scriptures are real. But why are so many faithful, good people not seeing the miracles and the fruits of the gospel in their own life. When is our healing coming?”
At the age of 24 I asked my fiancée (this was my second one—a couple years after my first one cheated on me), to stop being emotionally abusive to me. I told him that my husband would treat me well and that I believed he could be that person, but that he wasn’t acting like it right now. He laughed and said that he wasn’t changing for anyone, so I gave him back the ring and eventually moved away. I had a lot of questions about how it was possible to find a man who would treat me lovingly, and what it was about me that kept bringing men into my life who continually hurt me. I
knew there was much work to be done, but I had already done so much work, and was tired. I didn’t have the strength inside of me, nor did I think it was possible for me to excavate the depths of my soul to heal from all the pain I had experienced.
Again, I got down on my knees. I told God that I didn’t think I was worth the effort. In response, the words which were not my own came into my mind “I know you do not believe you are worth this, but I know you, and see the truth about who you really are. Trust me, and let me lead you, and you will come to realize your true value yourself.”
This has been a beautiful journey—one that is no where near over. But, one, that I can gratefully say has produced much fruit. Instead of having a miraculous healing all at once, I learned through these many years, several processes by which healing can occur. My healing process has brought me to my Savior, Jesus Christ, and to an expanded view of what is possible. I have since learned to value myself, to cultivate relationships that are so beautiful and mutually fulfilling, I didn’t know they were possible. I have learned about healing and faith in ways I had never known. There is much more work to be done inside myself—but I have an unwavering hope that it is possible, a drive to explore the miraculous depths of my own beauty and capacity, as well as a determination and confidence that have replaced overwhelming fear, self-hatred, and despair.
This website is a compilation of the things I feel strongly impressed to share from the lessons God has taught me. These insights came from several sources, including from my degree in Psychology, several years of my own personal therapy, reading lots and lots of philosophical, religious (Eastern and Western), spiritual, and alternative healing texts, as well as 8 years practicing professionally as a faith and relationships coach and energy/light worker. I share the heavenly responses to those three heartfelt conversations—how to overcome the pains of the past to have a happy family, how to cultivate the kind of faith in God to receive miracles and make all things possible, and how to come to know and live your true value. I stand as a witness that receiving those blessings, regardless of circumstance, is real and possible. And probably closer than you might think.
While I am in no way perfect, and have a long way still to go on my journey, please know all this comes from a place of love because I know that you—yes, YOU have within you, from God, the capacity to have more joy, more peace, more creativity, and more purpose than you ever thought possible—infinite in fact. YOU are loved by God. YOU are valuable, and you are put here on this earth for very specific reasons which I know you will fulfill. I’m humbled and grateful that you are interested in learning more. Let’s receive the blessings together.
With all my love and prayers!
Sarah Gonzales